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'Art Of Manliness' Is Finding A Balance Between Tough And Tender

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'Art Of Manliness' Is Finding A Balance Between Tough And Tender

To help men learn to be better men in the 21st century, Brett MacKay created the website Art of Manliness. He talks with Audie Cornish about what he sees as the basic conflict of modern masculinity — tough versus tender — and points out that men across time have successfully embraced both.

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The New American Man Doesn't Look Like His Father

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The New American Man Doesn't Look Like His Father

This summer, All Things Considered is exploring what it means to be a man in America today. In some ways, the picture for men has changed dramatically over the past 50 years. More women than men are going to college, and the economy is moving away from jobs that traditionally favored men, like manufacturing and mining. Attitudes have also changed on the social front, with young men having more egalitarian attitudes toward women and expectations of being involved fathers.   Pedro Noguera, a professor at New York University and head of the Metropolitan Center for Research on Equity and the Transformation of...

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Arnold Schwarzenegger's 5 Rules For Success

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Arnold Schwarzenegger's 5 Rules For Success

1) Trust Yourself Whatever your dream or calling is, you need to trust yourself and pursue it.  You can't listen to the naysayers or follow the path of your parents or family members, but rather discover what your mission is and go after it.  Arnold's family wanted him to be a police officer like his father, or play a “normal” sport like soccer instead of pursuing bodybuilding, but he knew deep down inside that isn't what he wanted.  He had to go against what others wanted for him so that he could forge his own path of success. “What is...

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The Men Who Still Love “Fight Club”

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The Men Who Still Love “Fight Club”

Twenty years ago this fall, David Fincher’s “Fight Club” went into wide release, drawing moviegoers into a tale of disaffected American men who chase authenticity by pummelling the shit out of one another in poorly lit basements. In the course of the film, these men expand into low-grade pranks and vandalism, and eventually form a terrorist cell called Project Mayhem that plants bombs in skyscrapers. The film, based on a relatively unknown 1996 novel by Chuck Palahniuk, took the top spot at the box office its opening weekend, but then quickly fizzled. On DVD, however, it found a second life, selling...

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Guys, We Have A Problem: How American Masculinity Creates Lonely Men

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Guys, We Have A Problem: How American Masculinity Creates Lonely Men

When Paul Kugelman was a kid, he had no shortage of friends. But as he grew older and entered middle age, his social world narrowed. "It was a very lonely time. I did go to work and I did have interactions at work, and I cherished those," he says. "But you know, at the end of the day it was just me."   New York University psychology professor Niobe Way has spent decades interviewing adolescent boys. She points to the cultural messages boys get early on. "These are human beings with unbelievable emotional and social capacity. And we as a   culture...

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